FROM ATTACH TO LOVE

We believe in the enslavement of others when we don´t free our soul and become vampires of the energy of the universe.

We are born in dependence, it is from there that as children we approach our parents, unable to say no, living a childish life, with no capacity for anything else to receive and feel victimized, in a process in which we have no essence and only ego. , and from the same we wound our soul.

The process of destruction is like going to the bottom of a well, and so dependency, attachment takes us down, to instincts, to the reptilian mind and it is from there that we form our image of the world, growing up implies the humility to make mistakes, to accept the no, but also the courage of self-love, the ability to value ourselves and to build our way to happiness.

We need to build, but above all we need to accept, to accept our nature so that from there, we realize that true empathy for the other, emotional openness and availability do not arise without an awareness of what is mine and what is theirs. the other, I have to understand what I am and what I am not, what I want for my life, what my goals are, what paths I want to take.

There are horizons that are mine, and they are anchored in values, and it is these values ​​that will illuminate my addictions, my dependencies, so that I can wake up and live life once and for all, with determination, with pride, with dignity. .

“To be great, be whole, nothing exaggerates or excludes you”, Pessoa said, to love you have to let go of attachment, let the other be free, let go, because that's the way, it doesn't matter for anything what the other will do , it only matters what I'm going to do with myself, what's the plan, the objective, my path, my path, my goal.

When we stop living for the other, we find our center and when we find it, genuine happiness springs from our soul, only when we know how to receive life's lessons can we grow, we stop being tantrum children and become children loved by ourselves. , and at that moment we stop begging for affection, we stop being dependent or wanting to control, we start to accept true praise and know the false, we start to follow intuition.

When we leave dependence and attachment, we open our eyes to the world and wake up, we come out of projections and see the reality of our soul and only in that moment when we are not desperately looking can we accept the encounter, realize that what has to come will come. , that the meeting will happen naturally, without haste, because what has to come always comes to us.

Attachment is holding, and it leads to loss, love is letting go, letting go, one is holding on in despair, the other is being light and finding yourself, being whole and in that completeness not feeling alone, abandoning illusion and looking for essence of the soul, where it is finally possible to settle down with courage and determination.